#SOS! Please I need advice urgently, before i go Crazy.

Please I need advice and urgently too.

I met this guy sometime last year and by ending of the year, he and his parents were already persuading me to marry him. His mum was practically enticing me to marry his son and I too went to God and got a confirmation so I went ahead and Jan this year we were married traditionally. After the wedding, I moved in with him and his parents,he has his own apartment but we had to stay with the parents while we finish up with the furnishing and decoration of our place. 

Barely 3 days after our wedding, his mum left for london leaving me with her husband to take care of,and i couldn’t leave the old man with no one to cook and take care of him. So we had to stay back in the house,we started our white wedding arrangements for April with hope that my mother-in-law will come home but at the middle of preparation she called to confirm that she wasn’t coming home and all our preparation was cancelled by my husband pending when his mum will come back. I didn’t object, not quiet long we got a hint that she was coming back same April, so I persuaded my hubby to fix up the wedding in May since mum will be back by then but he turned deaf ears. Finally, she came in and before she did I found out that I was pregnant. At first I was happy thinking she will push for the wedding but to my surprise she pretended not to notice. 

I told my hubby to speak up and let’s move out to our own place he said yes and moments later he changed his mind. I was getting worried my stomach was coming out she was maltreating me shouting and yelling at me at every slightest thin. My mother-in-law made sure life was miserable for me, I cried practically everyday and I never got a well done for taking care of her husband and the house while she was away. Two weeks later, she said she’s leaving for us and I should wait till October or when my child is born for the wedding. 

By oct I will be 7months gone and she’s leaving me again in the house to care for her husband whom I spend 6 hrs a day in the kitchen trying to please due to his large appetite and notorious way of eating. Now I am left with my father in-law and my husband in this big house with no one to help me. My health is no longer as strong as it used to be. I am so confused and angry at the moment, no wedding plans going on,my stomach is out already, my hubby on his own is not helping matters at all as he maltreats me, leaves me penniless despite his riches. Since I married him, I have never bought a new clothe, I can’t help out in my family. 

Sometimes I can’t afford #100 but my husband has millions, the last time I went for check up the doctor confirmed I have high blood pressure, and my blood doesn’t clot so I am at a very high risk having this baby. He doesn’t care, take me to a good hospital for proper care no. My aunt in London invited me to have my baby there all because of these complications but he didn’t accept . 

I am scared and frustrated, I have even considered suicide because life is meaningless to me. I cry sometimes from morning till night. I barely sleep at night, I want to leave this marriage. I am a graduate so I believe I can work things out, get a job and take care of myself and his child even my parents are in support of my leaving. Please kindly advice me.

God bless you abundantly.

Thank you all