My Girlfriend Ruined My Marriage;Married man laments.

 

What is with married men running after singles babes sef, As the Yorubas will say, O ni Iyan nile, o wa n da Oka laamu(meaning he has the real deal at home, and he is still searching for the fake outside his marriage) This is the story of married man's bitter experience in the hands of his girlfriend who he said he loved dearly and she threw his love back in his face and also ruined his marriage.

Read his story below

I used to have a girlfriend who had a son I adored and was more like a father figure to. I never lied to my girlfriend about my wife while we were dating and we got on well for so long.

But with time, she had an altercation with my wife which I totally disapproved of. I scolded my girlfriend and she begged me that she will never do such again. And due to the strange affection and love I had for her, our relationship continued but never like before again.


I blocked her contact details on my wife’s phone to prevent future calls or interactions. I thought I had secured everything to prevent any further occurrence of trouble with my wife and save my home. Unfortunately, unknown to me, my girlfriend had already sent pictures of my man-hood, my face, my shorts to my wife. This happened during a fun chat we had and unknowingly to me, my girlfriend was saving the snapshots.

The trouble started all over again with my wife after she confronted me with the pictures. I felt ashamed and hated myself. I couldn’t deny it. I know it really hurts for anybody to see such and I pleaded with my wife for her forgiveness.

I later sent messages to my girlfriend, telling her of the havoc she has caused in my home. She never replied but rather, I received a text from her telling me – God will settle it for you.

The message was like a sword that pierced through my heart! No remorse or apology!! I had never thought that someone I so wished good things for never cared about me.

Please let all men out there know there is no girlfriend that can be trusted! I didn’t only have my fingers burnt, but also half of my body.

#my take? whatever he got from both the wife and the girlfriend serves him right! there is absolutely NO excuse for cheating.