Can Social Media People stop the blame trades already! No one wants to loose a child!

Someone lost a child and people are trading blames??

No matter how put together y'all think you are, some incidents are totally out of our control.
telling you that both Dbanj and wife would have blamed themselves a billion times over.
No one wants to loose a child. The pain is indescribable.
The last time I was in London on vacation, I've forgotten the name of this park that has a water fountain. It's in one of these their many 'Squares' that tourists flock to.
I had two of them with me. My sons..
Both were beside me and I just looked down to buckle the sandals of my first. 

I left his hand for just a second and the next thing I saw was him running towards the fountain.
I screamed, Fego!! Muyiwa!! Myself and the Dad left the First and ran after him..
And this boy thought it was a hide and seek game. He ran and jumped into the fountain. Immediately, about 4 or 5 white guys dived after him. He was brought out and he was laughing. 

He was just 2yrs plus. He though it was all a joke.
I kept shivering for more than an hour. I was so weak my bones turned to jelly.
We were there. We were not negligent. Accidents happen.
What if it was a deeper flowing water?
How would I have explained that I went for vacation with two kids and came back with one in a box.
I couldn't sleep for days.
After that day, I stopped going out till the vacation was over.
I still can't allow them go swimming alone.
Their Dad is a good swimmer, but my paranoia is legendary where my children are concerned..

My heart goes out to Daniel's mother and Dbanj.
The pain they are going through now can never be imagined.